The Co-Pilot’s Guide to Lasting Relationships
Why do so many relationships stall out — even when both people want to make it work?
Because love alone isn’t enough. What matters most is how you navigate it.
Cleared for Love is a relationship book for people who are ready to stop defaulting to conflict, compromise, or quiet resentment — and start co-piloting their relationship with intention. Blending honest storytelling with practical tools, it reads like a hybrid between a narrative guide and a relationship workbook.
You’ll learn how to shift from reacting to collaborating — not just in major decisions, but as co-pilots in the everyday choices that shape connection and trust.
Inside, you’ll discover:
- The four patterns couples fall into — and why only one builds long-term partnership
- How to recognize when you're slipping into power plays, passive decisions, or one-sided effort
- What real collaboration looks like — and how to practice it even when emotions run high
- Simple habits that turn planning, intimacy, and everyday communication into shared success
- How to recover quickly when you lose sync and return to partnership without blame
For readers who want deeper practice, a companion workbook is available for purchase — packed with additional prompts, guided exercises, and real-life scenarios for solo reflection or couples work.
Whether you're starting fresh or strengthening something already good, this book gives you the mindset and tools to fly your relationship with confidence, care, and courage.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I read Cleared to Love in preparation for my interview with Scott Graham on the Rumbling Facts Podcast—the #1 destination to challenge the status quo, dissect the system, think outside the box, and dive into uncomfortable truths that collide with our reality. We explore expert insights through raw, unfiltered conversations. (Find us on Rumble, Spotify & YouTube)
I really appriecated the methaphoric seeing relationships like a flight plan—two people as co-pilots, working together through turbulence and clear skies. It’s not about fixing each other, it’s about flying the god dam plane together people. Honest talk, clear tools, reflective questions & Pratical strategies that you can actually use!
This book hit different. Cleared to Love doesn’t just talk about relationships—it clears the fog around why we love the way we do, and why we often repeat the same painful patterns without realizing it. Scott breaks down the emotional baggage we carry from childhood, past relationships, and traumas, and does it with compassion, clarity, and a no-BS approach that’s rare.
This isn’t just another self-help relationship guide. It’s a blueprint for emotional maturity, personal accountability, and truly showing up in love as a healed version of yourself. Scott doesn’t just teach theory—he walks you through how to process wounds, shift your internal story, and build a love life based on depth, not dysfunction.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of toxic relationships, or like you’re not truly seen or safe in love, this book will hit your core. It’s not just about being cleared to love someone else—it’s about getting emotionally cleared to love yourself first. Powerful, necessary, and real.